Chapter 112 What Should I Do?
Xia Fanxing recalled the process of growing up, and laughed at himself: "I never thought that the way parents treat their children will have such a great control over their children, but each child does not have the right to choose their parents." .”
"You are right. Parents rarely hurt their children consciously. They just pass on their ideas and behaviors to the next generation unconsciously."
"Then what should I do?" Xia Fanxing felt a little suffocated.
"So, when children grow up, once they realize that their parents' behaviors and ideas have caused harm to them, they must know how to adjust their basic behaviors."
"Then how should I adjust?"
"Okay, today's time has passed for a long time, let's discuss it based on today's problem next time."
Xia Fanxing was taken aback for a moment, he didn't expect that the consultation time would pass so quickly today.
He took out his mobile phone and looked at it, only to find that three hours had passed.
He felt a little guilty, and habitually lowered his head to apologize: "Sorry for delaying Teacher Ning for so long."
"I always know the time, so you don't have to feel guilty, just pay me on time."
"Okay." Xia Fanxing just breathed a sigh of relief and wanted to say thank you.
But I heard the gentle teacher Ning opposite, assigning him a task for this patient without being gentle at all: "I'm going on a business trip next week, so I leave you a homework. You go back and think back to your childhood, and think about what else is profound." The memories you have are painful and unforgettable. After the homework is done, send it to me, and let's see what we can learn from it. See you next week."
"Mr. Ning, I hate doing homework the most, can I not do it?" Xia Fanxing became irritable.
"You don't have to do it."
"too……"
"Then our cooperation is over."
"..."
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Before the business trip, the Ning family's family day.
On a weekend afternoon, it was raining outside the window.
There is a faint warm fragrance lingering in the house, which is the incense lighted by the hostess of the house.
Ning Youguang and Ning Youyu hugged their plates, sitting on the sofa, eating cherries and mangosteens, and chatting.
"Xiaoyu, why does sister feel that you have talked less recently?"
"Yeah." Ning Youyu spat out the cherry stone in his mouth.
"Well, what do you mean?"
Ning Youyu continued to eat cherries without speaking.
Ning Youguang looked at him, turned his eyes slightly, and asked, "Did the teacher say something to you at school, Xiaoyu recently? Or did something unhappy happen to you?"
Ming Jinxin sat opposite them, flipping through the latest fashion magazines she received.
Hearing her words, he raised his head and looked at them.
"The teacher said that if you don't follow the agreement during the lunch break and disturb others by talking, you won't have afternoon tea and fruit to eat." Ning Youyu frowned, spat out the cherry pits, and said.
"So, you have become quiet now?"
"The teacher even criticized me, saying that if I don't perform well, I won't be rewarded."
Ming Jinxin put down the magazine, "Did the teacher really say that?"
"Yes." Ning Youyu looked at his mother seriously and nodded.
"Then why don't you repeat what the teacher said to your mother?" Ming Jinxin took a look at Ning Youguang and softened his voice.
"The teacher said, if you don't follow the rules, you won't have any fruits to eat, and you will be in the back when you play games. Did you hear that?" Ning Youyu imitated the teacher's tone and repeated what the teacher said.
"Yu, if the teacher speaks like this, then mother doesn't feel that she is criticizing you. She just made rules for the children in the class, not for you."
Ning Youyu wrinkled his small face: "But, what she said made me very unhappy and very sad. Mom, you should go and tell the teacher."
Ming Jin was a little worried, but she still said patiently: "But the teacher made rules for the whole class, and mother has no way to communicate with her, because if you don't accept it alone, you will change it."
Ning Youyu curled his lips and continued to eat cherries.
Ning Youguang smiled at the right time and said, "This strawberry is delicious, who bought it?"
"My mother bought it." Ning Youyu replied.
"Auntie must have spent a lot of money, right?"
"It cost a lot of money." Ning Youyu continued to rush to answer.
This strawberry was bought by his mother in the supermarket, so he remembered it.
"Wow, Xiaoyu knows so much?"
"Yes." Ning Youyu's white and tender bun face was full of seriousness, and when he looked at people with round eyes, he was very cute.
"Then I'll go to the supermarket. If I don't have money, I don't know if they will give me strawberries." Ning Youguang smiled, but sighed pitifully.
"Sister, that's definitely not allowed. Everything in the supermarket costs money."
"I'm so sad, I have no money and I want strawberries from the supermarket."
Ming Jin pursed her lips and smiled.
Ning Youyu was a little anxious. He threw away the cherries and refused to eat them. He walked up to his sister and hugged her, just like his sister when she was reasoning with him.
The voice was soft and glutinous: "Sister, that's the rule in the supermarket. If you don't pay, there will be no strawberries. Do you want to buy strawberries? I have money, I will give it to you, and I will take you to buy it." Bar."
Ning Youguang was so warmed up by his younger brother, he couldn't be happier.
Ming Jinxin also smiled over there: "Your sister wants to tell you that the rules set by the teacher are the same as those set in the supermarket. Everyone must abide by them. If my sister wants strawberries, she has to spend money to buy them. If you want strawberries, you have to pay for them. If you eat delicious food early at school, you have to work hard, don’t you?”
Ning Youyu thought for a while, then nodded: "I see."
Afterwards, seeing his son regain his former vivacity.
Ming Jinxin said with emotion: "Yes, yes, you should observe carefully. If you don't say anything, I don't realize that I have been silent for more than a few days."
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later.
Ming Jinxin learned that Ning Youguang was going on a business trip to Boston in two days, and immediately sent a message in the family group, asking Ning Yi and Ming Chao to go home early, and the family went out for dinner in the evening.
The Ning family chose a private club not far from home for dinner.
The clubhouse has an elegant environment, good privacy, and good dishes.
In addition to expensive, no other problems.
The Ning family often comes.
At the beginning of the dinner, the family expressed their celebration and concern that Ning Youguang was about to go to the United States to attend an international academic conference on behalf of the motherland.
"This time you are with Professor Yu, you have to perform well and show your demeanor and demeanor to the guests from other countries."
"By the way, I just asked the bas to send photos of the latest clothes and shoes. We will choose a few sets when we get home tonight, and you can take them to the United States to wear." Ming Jinxin.
"Pay attention to safety on the road, the personnel outside is complicated, try not to go out alone, Boston is not as safe as our country." Ming Dynasty.
"At this meeting, all the top psychologists in the world will perform well and win glory for the motherland." Ning Yi.
"I know, I will take good care of myself, you don't have to worry." Ning Youguang said.
"Sister, remember to bring me a gift when you go to America." Ning Youyu said.
"it is good."
"I really need to prepare more money." Ming Chao put down his chopsticks and took out his mobile phone to operate.
Ning Youguang soon heard a "ding" from his mobile phone, and a message came in.
She took it out to have a look:
“[Bank of China] transferred 1,000,000.0 yuan from your account ending in 4134 to your account ending in 4144 at 19:41 on April 30th. Anyone who asks for a verification code is a liar, please don’t give it!]
"Brother, I'm rich." Ning Youguang laughed.
Ming Chao didn't know why, in recent years, he always found various excuses to send money to her.
"It's not too much to be rich." Ming Chao picked up his chopsticks to pick up a mouthful of food again, and ate at a leisurely pace.
He is handsome, has a good manner, and eats well.
But what I think in my heart is:
"How much money do you make as a teacher?"
"Wait or turn around."
"I don't know if it's enough to transfer another million?"
"Yes, you need to bring more money when you go abroad." Ning Yi also took out his mobile phone and manipulated it.
“[Bank of China] transferred 1,000,000.0 yuan from your account with the end number 5133 to your account with the end number 4144 at 19:43 on April 30th. Anyone who asks for a verification code is a liar, please don’t give it!]
"..." Ning Youguang.
"Take it or take it. Dad and brother should give you pocket money. After finally going abroad, just go shopping and buy whatever you see in Boston, don't worry about it." Ming Jinxin.
"Mom, doesn't my sister have money? When you get home, give me my New Year's money, and I will take it to the United States for my sister." Ning Youyu.
As soon as he said this, Ning Yi and Ming Chao's expressions changed.
"What's the matter with no money?" Ning Yi asked with a puzzled expression.
Without further ado, Ming Chao began to pick up his mobile phone and prepare to transfer money.
Ning Youguang hurriedly stopped him: "Brother, it's not that I don't have money, I was joking with Xiaoyu this afternoon."
Ming Chao was dubious: "Is it true that you don't have money?"
"Really, I'm rich. My aunt introduced me to a client recently. Mr. Xia is very generous and the consultation fee is very generous."
Then Ming Chao frowned and continued to eat.
After caring about my daughter's business trip abroad.
Ming Jinxin went on to say: "I plan to resign Xiao Zhang from my family."
Xiao Zhang is the young aunt in the family.
"What's wrong?" Ning Yi asked in surprise, "Didn't you say that she has a good handiwork?"
"It's pretty good." Ming Jin nodded heartily, "Auntie Biliu's cooking is delicious, Chinese and Western food, all major cuisines can be cooked, she can cook what I order, and she can cook what I don't order."
"Then why did you quit?" Ning Yi was surprised.
"Doesn't our family eat dumplings a few times a week? Sometimes I let her take away the leftover noodles, and sometimes I let her take away the leftover stuffing. However, recently I found that she made her own decisions, leaving some fillings and Some noodles, take them away after get off work." Ming Jin paused, "This is a bit embarrassing, I can't understand her way..."
"Craftsmanship is good, character is not good, so it can't be used." Ning Yi understood.
Finished speaking.
Ming Jinxin came to a conclusion: "It's really hard to find a useful worker these days."
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The day of departure.
Ning Youguang went to Professor Yu's house to pick up the teacher and went to the airport. When he arrived at the airport, he found that his brother Chen Yifan was already waiting at the airport.
Seeing them coming, Chen Yifan took the luggage from their hands: "Teacher, Junior Sister, there is still an hour to board the plane, let's go to the lounge to rest for a while."
Professor Yu agreed, and the three master and apprentice went into the lounge to rest.
Ning Youguang went to fetch water for the professor.
"What do you drink, brother?" She asked casually.
She and Professor Yu are used to carrying thermos cups when they go out, and they carry thermos cups with them every day.
Chen Yifan, she often saw him drinking.
"I drink water too. There are cups by the water dispenser." Chen Yifan got up and went to the water dispenser with her.
While waiting for the water to be filled, Ning Youguang smiled and said:
"We drink water, you don't need to drink with us."
Chen Yifan's ears turned red, "Drinking water is good, I will drink less beverages in the future to resist sugar."
"Can I quit Coke?" Ning Youguang joked.
Drinking happy water is one of the few hobbies of Senior Brother Chen.
"I can quit." Chen Yifan paused, took a sip of the warm water already installed on the water dispenser, "The medicine you prescribed for me last time was very good, and I don't have much acne now, thank you."
"I saw it, and I know that you have followed the doctor's advice." Ning Youguang pursed his lips and smiled.
When the brothers and sisters returned to the lounge with both ends of the water, they saw that Professor Yu was reading the materials with his glasses on again.
"Didn't the teacher say to take a break? Why are you reading the materials again?" Ning Youguang handed her the water. "How can you sleep in this environment, why don't you use it to read the materials for a while." Professor Yu took the thermos and handed the materials to her, "You should also look at these materials. If there is anything you don't understand, you can find I'll discuss it, don't be nervous."
"Teacher, I'm not nervous."
"Come on, try it." Professor Yu took out two more packs of biscuits from the bag next to him, and gave each of Ning Youguang and Chen Yifan a bag. "Your master prepared this for me before going out. He said it was a long meeting, and you should bring two yuan with you to replenish your energy. You should try it too."
I was caught off guard and was fed a mouthful of dog food.
Ning Youguang and Chen Yifan looked at each other, then drank water and ate biscuits in silence.
Not to mention, although it is a bit sweet, the taste is quite good.
Professor Yu was also happy to see the two apprentices eating well, and smiled, "When I was a child, my mother had no milk. I didn't like to drink cow's milk or goat's milk. Now I can't stand even smelling it. I feel sick. When I was young, I ate the most. The most important thing is to soak the biscuits in water. No matter what kind of biscuits, they must be eaten in water. Watching the biscuits become white and fat in the hot water, and eating them with a spoon, it feels very delicious. Now every night for supper is In this way, your teacher prepared different biscuits with a small bowl and a small spoon, and I am only responsible for eating them."
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