Chapter 124 Teacher, Do You Believe in Numerology?
When Ning Youguang taught her classmates at school, she would leave about ten minutes between each class to allow the students to ask her questions freely. She called this the "question-and-answer session."
The "Question and Answer Session" is undoubtedly the most popular link in Teacher Ning's class.
Every time a class is held, the atmosphere in the classroom will be pushed to its climax when it comes to the "question-answering session".
On this day, we met Mr. Ning again during the "Question and Answer Session" between classes.
Some students laughed and asked: "Why is the teacher so beautiful and still single?"
Wearing a white suit, nude high-heeled shoes, long hair gently coiled up, teacher Ning raised her eyebrows and said, "Pretty, is there a problem with being single?"
The audience roared with laughter, and the students said in one go:
"No no."
"Teachers are the treasures of our National University of Science and Technology, and they are not worthy of just anyone."
"so……"
"Must pick slowly."
"Hahahahahaha."
"Can the teacher accept the relationship between teachers and students?" Ning Youguang looked at it, and the questioner from the audience was a fair-looking boy.
"I respect all emotional relationships based on your love and my willingness."
"Is it okay for girls too?" A girl in the audience asked with round eyes. It was a very beautiful girl.
"There's nothing wrong with girls." Ning Youguang smiled and put away the teaching aids on the podium, "However, the teacher only plans to fall in love with his soul mate for the time being."
"Ah, who is the teacher's soul mate?" The boys and girls in the audience were shocked and curious.
"Knowledge." Ning Youguang stretched out his index finger, and pushed up Ting's glasses on the bridge of his nose.
The thin rose-gold chain on the glasses swayed with her movements, refracting a few flashes of light, making her already finely crafted face a little more hazy.
Her aura, from being sassy at the beginning, instantly became a little more unfathomable, mysterious and seductive.
The students in the audience went crazy in an instant.
Regardless of boys or girls, many of them murmured to the students next to them with red faces:
"Teacher Ning looks like wearing glasses, he is really a gentle scum."
"I want to be Teacher Ning's glasses."
"It's another day of being cried out by Teacher Ning."
"Beautiful and sassy, awsl!"
"..."
Looking at the scene like a star chasing scene under the stage, Ning Youguang was speechless for half a second, and asked, "All of you, none of you asked me about the content of the lecture just now, then I will assume that you all understood."
After finishing speaking, she picked up the teaching aids that had just been tidied up, "get out of class is over."
The students in the audience immediately sat up straight and stretched out Erkang's hand:
"No, teacher, we didn't understand."
"Teacher, please tell us more!"
There are also some students who are very clever, standing up quickly and throwing serious questions loudly: "Teacher, I want to know, as a psychologist, what are the problems you want to find out in these treatments?"
This question really left Ning Youguang behind.
She stood up again in front of the podium and answered earnestly: "Every time a client comes to me, I don't want to find out the problem. I just hope that they can understand themselves better, so that they can see if there is something in them. Variety."
"So what do you do if your treatment doesn't work for the client?"
"If I feel that a certain treatment does not inspire them, then I will immediately terminate this treatment."
Afterwards, several students seriously raised some professional questions, and Ning Youguang patiently answered them one by one.
It wasn't until the next class was about to start that the enthusiastic students in the classroom let Teacher Ning leave.
When Ning Youguang walked out of the classroom with a smile, many boys and girls followed her and said goodbye to her happily.
She didn't turn around, but raised her hand and waved to them.
...
Since the bell for the next class had already rang, the campus of UCAS was a little empty at the moment, with no one there.
In such a slightly quiet situation.
When Ning Youguang concentrated on walking, the slight sound of footsteps coming from behind became more obvious.
She turned her head and saw a tall, thin, casually dressed girl with a handsome face, following her unhurriedly.
is her student.
"Fang Tian, what's the matter with you following me?" She raised her voice and asked.
The tall and thin girl paused, then trotted up to her, thought for a long time, and asked cautiously:
"Teacher, can I buy you a cup of milk tea?"
Ning Youguang saw the deep confusion in her eyes, and asked with a light smile, "Are you going to have no class next class?"
Fang Tian shook his head: "No."
"Okay then, let's go."
...
In the pedestrian street of the National University of Science and Technology, there is no one in the milk tea shop decorated in a very Internet celebrity style.
"Teacher, your Zhizhiberry." Fang Tian gently placed the milk tea he just took from the bar in front of Ning Youguang.
"Thank you." Ning Youguang chuckled, and inserted the straw leisurely.
Fang Tian was holding his unopened milk tea and began to get nervous.
She lowered her head, preoccupied.
Ning Youguang took a sip of milk tea, observed her quietly for a while, and then asked slowly, "Is there any confusion and you want to talk to me?"
Fang Tian looked up at her, and after a long while, he muffled out:
"Teacher, do you believe in fortune telling?"
"How to say?"
"It's fortune-telling, metaphysics, feng shui, etc. Do you believe it, teacher?"
Ning Youguang took another sip of the milk tea, chewing the pulp inside lightly, "I can't say I don't believe it at all."
Fang Tian's eyes widened in an instant: "So the teacher also thinks that metaphysics is not a feudal superstition, right?"
Ning Youguang thought for a while and replied seriously: "How should I put it? There is a saying that the end of science is metaphysics. Everything in this world exists and is reasonable. The reason why many people think metaphysics is superstitious is because they are not familiar with these subjects They are half-understood, in a state of incomplete understanding, that’s why they are called superstitions.”
After listening to her words, Fang Tian felt like a balloon that had been punctured, his whole body softened, and a confused and gloomy look appeared on his face:
"Teacher, I didn't believe it before, but now I have to believe it."
"Is it because of some opportunity?" Ning Youguang asked softly.
Fang Tian nodded heavily, and then slowly said with his own confusion: "It's like this, didn't I go home last week? My grandfather asked Mr. Feng Shui to look at our house again. Before that, he had already found I have had several Fengshui masters look at the house. Every time a Fengshui master came to visit our house, they would say something like 'um', 'good', 'yes', but last week the Fengshui master told my grandpa Very carefully, I listened carefully at the side. After listening to his explanation, I went to search our house and was shocked. Teacher, do you know? It’s about all the bad things about the house’s feng shui. All of them were hit, and the whole person behind me is not well."
"Does that have anything to do with what you believe?"
"Yes!" Fang Tian's eyes showed deep fear.
"Is it because of what happened at home recently?" Ning Youguang's voice became softer.
"Yes, teacher, all this is because of my mother." Fang Tian frowned when he said "my mother".
"What happened to your mother?"
"Our house is newly bought. We have just moved there for less than three years. Before that, my mother had been in poor health, not because it was bad to move to a new house, but because she had been in poor health for a long time. The one who has to go to the hospital to see a doctor, she has a history of mental illness, and she has been taking medicine. In addition, she has gynecological problems, so she has been taking medicine for a long time, but since we moved into the new house, she has been constantly being called Those who sell health care products, those who do micro-businesses, and those who do pyramid schemes cheat." At this point, Fang Tian became anxious all over, "A normal person knows that those people are liars, but my mother just believes them. After coming down, all the money on her body was cheated out, not only that, after being cheated out, she didn't feel that she was cheated, and now she began to borrow money to buy these physiotherapy, health care products, medicines and the like, My dad and I only recently found out about these things."
"Is it so serious?" Ning Youguang asked in surprise.
"Yes, my mother has already borrowed a lot of money outside, and we are all afraid that she will be cheated more, so I found out that our house is like this last week, and I was even more scared. If it weren't for my mother , Just listen to what Mr. Feng Shui said, I may not feel this way, but now I really have no way not to believe it. "
"It seems that Mom's problem is a bit serious."
"Yes, teacher, what should I do? I don't know what to do to prevent my mother from being cheated. I don't dare to go home now. I'm afraid to go back to live in that house."
Knowing that the girl in front of him was in extreme fear, Ning Youguang sat closer to her and gently stroked her back so that she could calm down.
Then, she said in a gentle voice: "Mom's problem, we need to wait and see for the time being, but the teacher can still talk to you about the problem of bad feng shui in your house."
"Teacher?" Fang Tian gradually calmed down under Ning Youguang's comfort.
"Everything around us has a magnetic field. Everyone's external magnetic field, including your residential feng shui, your horoscope, ID number, phone number, all of these add up to only 40% of your luck. The so-called environment turns with the heart, good or bad life is not all because of the rotation of these magnetic fields, the most important thing is related to a person's heart. Moreover, these contents are interpreted, and it does not represent the whole of a person, it just can Temporarily explaining a state of a person in a short period of time, so you have to look at this problem in variables, and when encountering bad explanations, don’t be too afraid of it, because variables are changing at any time.”
"So the house isn't the main reason Mom is like this, is it?"
"What do you say?"
"I see." Fang Tian let out a deep breath.
"If after I've told you this, you are still afraid of the problems of the house, you can ask your family to hire a trusted Feng Shui master to change the Feng Shui of your home, and it doesn't need to spend too much money. It can be done within.”
"The problem is that my dad doesn't believe this. It's too difficult." Fang Tian felt very distressed when he thought of his father and grandfather arguing about these things.
"If Dad really doesn't believe this, then what kind of house he lives in and what happens to him is fate. You have to learn to respect him. He is in such a state."
Fang Tian obviously couldn't accept his father's stubborn cognition and all kinds of messy things at home.
Ning Youguang also knows that it takes a process for anyone to accept something that he cannot agree with.
So, she changed the subject and continued: "Mother is in this state, as a daughter, you can't confront her for the time being. According to my judgment, your mother has a lot of fears. When a person is in extreme fear, her perception of the world The sense of trust is very low, and she won’t listen to what you say, so it’s useless to reason with her or teach her how to do it.”
"Yes, teacher, when I just found out that my mother was cheated of so much money, I patiently communicated with her, and she told me so much, but now, she is in a state of complete refusal to communicate at home, and she is Believe those liars, be willing to be deceived by them, and don’t believe us, just like being possessed by evil spirits. Now she is anxious to anyone who says that those medicines are not good. She just thinks that medicine is very effective for her, and she keeps telling people that The medicine is very effective. We sent those medicines to the Food and Drug Administration for inspection. The Food and Drug Administration said they were useless, but she insisted that they were very useful. The problem is that those medicines are really expensive. Hundreds of thousands of hundreds of thousands for a course of treatment , She ate and her body didn’t recover.”
Fang Tian held his head in his hands, feeling extremely distressed.
"Frankly speaking, I really can't understand why she would do that. If she continues to borrow money like this to buy it, our house will not be able to keep."
"Have you ever been to that store? Go and see what they are doing."
"We couldn't find the store. We found it before and called the police on the spot. But it didn't take long for them to move."
"Isn't mom in touch with them all the time?"
"She still went, but she didn't tell us where she was. She knew we wouldn't let her go there for medical treatment."
"Before this matter, my father lost his temper at home and quarreled with her many times, and the whole family knew about it. Many people in our family also came to persuade her not to be cheated any more. She assured us that she would not go there anymore, the course of treatment had already been completed, but later we found out that she still went there secretly, and now she can’t borrow money to go there, so she just took out a loan, it’s too scary.”
"It's really scary." Ning Youguang said slowly.
She knew that the student in front of her was facing a huge family crisis, and she had countless ways to analyze why her mother was like this, but these were all palliatives, not the root cause.
After thinking about it, she asked, "Did you take your mother to see a psychiatrist at home?"
"Yes, I saw several psychiatrists and took medicine, but it didn't work." This made people despair.
"How do you need the teacher to help you?"
Fang Tian was stunned for a moment, and then slowly stated the purpose of looking for her today: "Can the teacher take my mother's case?"
"Is your mother willing to see me?"
Fang Tian was extremely distressed, "She doesn't want to see a psychiatrist."
Ning Youguang sighed softly: "Fang Tian, I will always consult the visitors over the age of ten. If they strongly refuse to accept the counseling of a psychologist, I will not force them. A principle that a psychiatrist must abide by—the psychiatrist is a job of helping others to help themselves, if the client refuses to help, then no matter how powerful I am, it will be in vain.”
Fang Tian bowed his head and fell silent, his whole body exuded a desperate and irritable breath.
"However, taking medicine is useless for my mother's illness. I think only psychological healing can help her."
"Your guess is correct."
"The teacher..."
"As your teacher, I certainly hope to help you, but when your mother walks into my consultation room, I am her psychiatrist. In any case, I cannot destroy the principles that I should have as a psychological counselor. "
Fang Tian was a little emotionally broken, "Then what should I do, teacher, I'm so scared..."
Ning Youguang gently hugged the helpless student in front of him, and said in a gentle voice: "Teacher knows you are very scared, if you can persuade your mother to take the initiative to seek my help, I will take your mother's case."
Fang Tian hugged the teacher who was lighter than himself in front of him tightly, smelled the faint fragrance of her body, and cried bitterly.
Then, she raised her head, looked at her, and said almost stubbornly: "Teacher, I will ask the head teacher for leave tomorrow and go home. No matter what method I use, I must bring my mother to you."
"Okay, I'll wait for you." Ning Youguang smiled gently.
Then, she pushed the milk tea that was pushed aside by her, and pushed it back in front of her: "Before that, the teacher has to tell you that if we find any bad things around us, once we find out, it means that it is a good thing." It’s the beginning of the transformation, good and bad depend on each other, so don’t be afraid, life is always going on, the most important thing for you right now is not to put too much psychological burden on yourself, to worry about what will happen to your mother, she is now I am a sick person who urgently needs your help. At this time, you must take good care of yourself, whether it is body, mind, or money, and store up energy safely. Otherwise, you will have no way to help and take care of you at a critical moment. family."
"Teacher, then I will take all this happening, as you said, it is the beginning of getting better."
Fang Tian took a big sip of the milk tea, and squeezed out a smile on his distressed face. 1314