Chapter 131

"You can't figure out why someone exercised the veto power, and you feel like your dignity is shattered?" Ning Youguang said.

"Yes, if the handsome guy is interested in someone whose qualifications are better than mine, or whose qualifications are similar to mine, I will also recognize him, but why is he looking at a short poem?" Li Qing was puzzled.

Being able to talk out the reasons for your pain is considered progress.

Ning Youguang Wensheng said: "I know you are very hurt, but what makes you feel sad the most is not that the handsome guy doesn't like you, but that you have failed completely in the comparison with Xiaoshi."

Li Qing thought for a while, "You are right."

Ning Youguang took a sip of water, and asked slowly: "Did you get used to comparing yourself with others in your original family?"

"Is there any problem with this? If you don't compare, how will you know what you are like, isn't it?"

Ning Youguang sighed and said: "Honey, this is the crux of the problem. In fact, the answer to how a person is is not obtained by comparing himself with others, but the key lies in himself. Take yourself as the answer." Say, do you think there is any difference between you now and a week ago?"

"Of course I did. I lost a lot of hair, my dark circles became more serious, my spirits are poor, and my complexion is not good..."

"How do you feel about these changes?"

"It's not as good-looking as it used to be, and it's not as energetic as it used to be. I always feel that this is not good, that is not good. I start to wonder if my previous evaluation of myself was a little self-righteous, and I will keep thinking about what problems I have. How is it worse than Xiaoshi and so on."

The more Li Qing said, the more frustrated he became.

Ning Youguang raised his hand, interrupting her words and preventing her self-criticism.

She said: "Let me ask you, are you a master's student who graduated from the National University of Science and Technology, a tenth-level piano player, a wealthy family, a height of 164, a weight of less than 100, a beautiful appearance, a car and a house in Beijing, a hobby of traveling, and a good job. Cai, the helpful and kind-hearted Li Qing?"

Li Qing gave a rare laugh, "Of course, these are all me. Although I'm in a bad state now, it doesn't mean that all these things I have have disappeared."

Ning Youguang also smiled, and said while the iron was hot: "Yes, you are still you, you just experienced a rather absurd crush, a boy who didn't know you very well and had nothing to do with him, but who was good looking made his choice , and you still can't figure out why he would have such a choice, but as long as you respect his choice and know that those two people have nothing to do with you, your life will not be affected, and your life will continue as usual. , you should fall in love in the future, you should like whoever you like, it’s more about the freedom of choice, isn’t it?”

After a long silence, Li Qing asked in a hoarse voice, "So, I'm not worse than Xiaoshi, am I?"

Ning Youguang smiled and said, "Of course, who said that two girls fall in love with the same boy, and when the boy chooses one of them, the other girl must be the worse one? Such reasoning is completely unreasonable and illogical what."

After thinking about it, she then asked, "Did you watch Taiwanese idol dramas when you were young?"

Li Qing became interested and shouted, "Of course I watched it, but I like it. Every time I have a holiday, I watch it with my TV in my arms."

"At that time, were the second girls on TV all born well-born, beautiful, well-educated, and loved by parents and many relatives and friends?"

"Yes." Li Qing nodded seriously.

"Are the first females all the kind of ordinary ugly ducklings with bad birth, mediocre appearance, no education, no outstanding skills, and who don't do well in society?"

"Yes, so..."

"At that time, you didn't feel embarrassed watching it, but now if you watch this kind of TV series again, you will not be able to watch a single episode, and you will feel that not only the male lead is blind, but the screenwriter is also mentally disabled, and he is a normal person. Knowing that in real life, girls with such good conditions as the second female lead are mostly tall, rich and handsome queuing up to ask for it. How could they rush to compare with such a girl who is not at the same level because of love, and why would they be so stupid for such a stupid man? Crazy, crazy for him, hitting a big wall for him?"

"..." It seems to be talking about myself.

"Now you, what would you do if you were the second female?"

Li Qing buried his head in the pillow, and said in a muffled voice, "Of course it's to stay away from the abnormal human beings, Dumei, or find a more splendid flower field."

"That's it." Ning Youguang laughed, "Have you figured it out?"

"Yes, this matter is because I have trapped myself in a cage. I don't need to compare with Xiaoshi at all. That handsome guy doesn't like me. It's his right. Feelings can't be forced. They are born in my life. Words don't matter."

Ning Youguang smiled and nodded, "That's right, you have to believe that you have always been good, and there is no market for the opposite sex. Now, you just met a boy who is not right for a short time. In the future , you still have a lot of possibilities to get a better love."

Li Qing's face also regained its brilliance, "I understand, I will never criticize myself and deny my own value in the comparison with others in the future."

Ning Youguang smiled, got up and went to the kitchen to bring two plates of cherry tomatoes and lychees that had been washed long ago, and put them in front of Li Qing, "Yes, there is no harm without comparison."

The heart knot is opened, and the person relaxes all at once.

Seeing the two plates of juicy and beautiful fruits in front of him, Li Qing's appetite was instantly whetted.

Ning Youguang didn't need to greet him, so he picked up the fruit plate and ate it.

After eating two plates of fruit, she stretched like a well-fed cat, and then fell asleep on the sofa in Ning Youguang's room.

Sunlight quietly fell on her body through the window, Li Qing's pale face gradually faded after falling into a deep sleep, and a layer of pink appeared, sweet like a baby.

Ning Youguang gently pinched her wrist, took her pulse, and found that there was nothing wrong with her body, then got up gently, went to the cabinet and took a blanket to cover her body.

This time, Li Qing slept until dusk.

Ning Youguang had already quietly gone out for lunch, and then quietly came back to read a book in his room.

After waking up, Li Qing saw Ning Youguang lazily leaning against the window reading a book at a glance, quiet and peaceful like a beautiful painting.

She stared in a daze for a long time, as if she was in a dream, unwilling to wake up. 1314