Chapter 111 Powerful Counselor (New Update)

Xia Fanxing came to the National University of Science and Technology after a series of phone calls from his uncle, agreed on a date, and compelled him to do so.

Hearing the instructions from the beautiful and gentle female voice on the phone, she arrived at the door of her office.

After ringing the doorbell, he saw a very tall, young and beautiful girl.

Although the girl was extremely beautiful, her face didn't have the slightest arrogance that a big beauty should have. Instead, she looked like the moon, gentle and non-aggressive.

There was a serene aura about her that he had never seen in ordinary pretty girls before.

The girl opened the door without even saying hello.

He was silent for a while, then lowered his head and said, "I'm here to find Teacher Ning."

"I'm Teacher Ning." When the girl spoke, it was exactly the same as the voice on the phone.

She is the very powerful psychiatrist that uncle found for him.

While Xia Fanxing was secretly shocked, he was also a little irritable.

He didn't actually want to go out, nor did he want to see a psychiatrist.

No matter how good-looking the girl opposite is, the breath on her body makes him feel comfortable.

As long as he heard her identity, he couldn't help but feel repulsed.

After all, they have come, and they can't just turn around and leave.

Xia Fanxing lowered his head and stopped talking.

Then, he was taken into a room full of books. There were two chairs in the room and a small log-colored desk. There was nothing on the desk except an ultra-thin silver laptop.

She sat down on the chair.

He looked at her for a while, and then sat down on one of the chairs.

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Xia Fanxing lowered his head and remained silent.

He has long been used to the people around him talking to him, and he just preaches, and a lot of truths are thrown at him.

Each of them is very powerful, as if they know more than him.

Although the opposite person is young and beautiful, according to his uncle's introduction, he is said to be a genius, a famous psychologist and the youngest professor of psychology in the history of the National University of Science and Technology.

That's what makes him feel superior. He must have spoken in this way when facing someone like him.

He was ready to be trained, but after waiting for a long time, there was no movement.

After a long silence, he finally couldn't help it, and asked depressedly, "Aren't you going to ask me something?"

"About what?" Ning Youguang was always patient when facing the client.

"Tell me what to do is right, good, and what should be done. Didn't uncle tell me to come and tell me these things?" Xia Fanxing sneered.

"Do you feel that what you are doing is wrong?" Ning Youguang was not affected by his provocation at all, and his attitude was as gentle as before.

Xia Fanxing couldn't help covering his face, "Yes, uncle must have told you about my situation."

Tears soon flowed from his fingers.

Ning Youguang didn't say anything, and continued to watch silently.

Xia Fanxing couldn't hold back anymore.

Crying presumptuously, the whole person felt like a broken pot.

He cried for a long time.

Ning Youguang waited silently, without saying anything.

During this period, she just quietly gave him a box of tissues.

After a long time, Xia Fanxing's crying gradually subsided, and he raised his head to look at Ning Youguang.

Obviously she didn't do anything or say anything, but he felt better.

"My uncle asked me to come to you and said that you can help me. Now I decide to listen to you. Tell me what I should do, and I will do it. I know that uncle is also doing it for my own good."

Ning Youguang ignored what he said at all, but said with a smile, "Mr. Xia, I have always only lectured to my students."

Obviously, Xia Fanxing is not her student.

She won't give him lectures.

If you don't give lectures, you won't be able to explain the truth to him.

It's not what he thought.

"Then..." Xia Fanxing showed confusion on his face, "How do we do individual case consultation?"

Ning Youguang looked at the young man who had cut his hair, shaved his beard, changed into clean clothes, and tidied himself up, and said with a light smile, "This is a good question. Let me tell you, psychological counseling is a spontaneous process. , when doing a case, the case can only proceed normally if the client and the consultant are voluntary, which means that only when you come to me because you need consultation, can I help you, we Once we have made an appointment to cooperate, we need to draw up a contract. At the end of the consultation, I will tell you your situation and progress, clearly written in black and white. This is a very professional case consultation We all need to be responsible for this process, and we need to take it seriously.”

Young Master Xia whose face and facial features were clearly exposed in front of people, although he wore a hat and habitually lowered his head, he was a handsome young man at a glance.

It's just because he is too thin, his cheeks have no flesh, and his bones are a little protruding, which makes him look a little less good-looking.

Because he hadn't gone out for many years, his skin was paler than the average person's, and there were blue bloodshots, making him look gloomy and gloomy.

Xia Fanxing's mind was spinning rapidly.

Although he hasn't figured out the situation yet, he understands that he has to be voluntary to consult Mr. Ning, and he has to be responsible for the results of the consultation.

This means that after the consultation, no matter what happens, he will have to pay for it.

"I understand. I am willing to accept consultation and cooperate with you. Sorry, my attitude was not correct just now. Excuse me, can we continue to consult?"

"We've had a formal consultation."

Ning Youguang's attitude was more relaxed and calm than he thought.

Next, she patiently explained to him what the client and the consultant need to do when conducting a case.

"We need an hour of face-to-face interviews every week. The length of the consultation case depends on your specific situation. I suggest that your consultation start next week, every Wednesday from 10 am to 11 am. When the case ends, we will Will move on to the next consulting plan, have you decided yet?"

Xia Fanxing just wanted to nod, but then he remembered that he used to always make decisions without thinking like this before, and even regretted it later, or he would follow what the elders in the family said.

The result is that he did it reluctantly.

It seems that he seldom thinks twice before making decisions firmly and according to his own ideas.

The promise to the mouth was shut in the throat.

"Can I go back and think about it for a while before calling you, my decision?"

"Of course." Ning Youguang stood up.

There are no mandatory requirements, nor too many suggestions.

Xia Fanxing felt relieved and sighed softly.

Before leaving Ning Youguang's office.

Xia Fanxing had already gone out, but he turned around and looked at Teacher Ning who was standing by the door to see him off.

He hesitated for a moment, then asked anxiously: "Mr. Ning, do you think I will get better?"

"Of course, to be willing to do this job is to believe that everyone who comes to me has the possibility of being cured."

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Xia Fanxing copied his pockets, put on a hat, lowered his head and walked slowly out of the gate of the University of Science and Technology of China.

He didn't take a taxi home immediately, and quickly locked himself up, but walked aimlessly along the road outside the University of Science and Technology of China.

He was thinking about Teacher Ning's words, and also thinking about what the next consultation would look like.

Xia Fanxing, who came home that day, felt that the days seemed to pass very slowly for some reason.

The first psychological consultation made him feel that he had gained some strength, but it didn't last long.

When he got home, he was back to the way he was at home.

Most of the time, he feels anxious.

The wall clock on the wall, swinging every minute and every second, seems to be more difficult than the past.

Finally came the Wednesday morning that I had agreed with Mr. Ning.

This time, without the pressure from his uncle, he shaved, washed his hair, and went to the National University of Science and Technology.

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This was the second time Xia Fanxing sat face to face with Teacher Ning in her office.

Whenever the client comes to the office, Ning Youguang is used to listening before speaking.

She didn't speak, Xia Fanxing was even more silent.

It wasn't until Ning Youguang felt that the other party was restless that he asked, "How are you feeling today?"

"It's okay." Xia Fanxing replied perfunctorily.

Ning Youguang gave an example to let him see his inner emotional value more clearly.

He frowned and said something more specific.

Only then did she know that his emotional value was so low that it was only a little bit better than wanting to commit suicide.

"Okay, then I see, have you ever thought about suicide?"

"Yes, a month ago, I didn't want to do anything at home, I didn't want to play games, I didn't want to surf the Internet, I couldn't sleep at night, and I didn't want to eat during the day. I felt that I was shrouded in darkness. I didn't know what to do. I went to On the top of the building, I really wanted to jump down, but at that time, someone was walking downstairs, so I gave up this idea." Xia Fanxing took a deep breath, as if to cheer up, "I didn't commit suicide at other times. Impulsive."

"So, how are you feeling now?"

"I didn't feel motivated to get out the door and didn't know how to continue living."

"Have you always felt this way?"

Xia Fanxing sniffed, "Yes, I often feel hopeless in life, occasionally read a book or a movie and want to do something, but when I was about to act, I flinched, and then fell into more negative emotions. "

"Can you tell me your story?" Ning Youguang, who was talking to Xia Fanxing, had a kind of peaceful tenderness in his eyes.

As soon as Xia Fanxing saw her eyes, he couldn't help sobbing, until he was released and burst into tears.

After that, I kept thinking about the unhappy past events that happened to me, and picked out some of my deepest memories to tell her.

After a while.

Ning Youguang asked: "Is there any more?"

"Yes." Xia Fanxing closed his eyes, "There are many, many, but I don't want to talk about it now."

Ning Youguang allowed the other party to be silent, but also allowed the other party to escape.

It seems like a century has passed.

Xia Fanxing said in a low voice: "Mr. Ning, my back hurts so much, can I get up and walk?"

"Yes." Ning Youguang nodded.

Xia Fanxing propped up the chair, got up from his seat, hunched over and began to walk around Ning Youguang's office.

At first he walked very slowly, but gradually he stood up straighter and walked faster. 1314

Teacher Ning: The children who grew up under the suppression and criticism of their parents are so pitiful...