Chapter 2453 【2453】Recalling Myself

Reading a book is different. It turns out that her father seems to be indifferent to her affairs at home, and her mother is more anxious. It's not that her family is in a special situation. In most families, men's reactions are different from women's, and their performance is more calm. It is consistent with what the obstetric father said.

"The next in line is loneliness."

Isn't it surprising that family members are also lonely. The patient's family members are not sick, how can they be lonely?

"The family members accompany the patients, and I need to support the patients, but if there is no one to support the family members, the family members are actually fighting alone in society." Li Yaxi said here, thinking that her mother used to avoid the reality of her hospitalization so much. The hospital accompanied her, lest this was the reason, plus the third psychological feature of the family members, which will be discussed below, was panic.

Don't think that only patients are afraid of life and death. The fear of family members facing the death of their family members is unimaginable to outsiders. It's not that I will die, but watching my family members die is like a soldier seeing his comrades dying in front of him.

It can be said that life is afraid of loneliness, and loneliness and panic coexist.

There is another clinically common family emotion, which is the "hostility" shown by Zhang Li and Liu Jinyin today.

Is it even more surprising to the extreme.

Hostility is a clinically common psychological feature of family members. No wonder the clinical teachers have already known about this Buddha, because they understand science.

Hostility must first be related to cognition. Those who are not medical students have a relatively one-sided understanding of medicine, and some inexplicable rumors spread and smear, and some family members have weak resistance to stress. Combined with the above three other factors, it is all too easy to turn into hostility. Moreover, hostility is not necessarily directed at medical personnel.

Analyzing these mental states is beneficial for human beings to see themselves clearly like looking in a mirror. Researchers believe that human beings are not unconscious, but are often lost in the maze.

"Dr. Xie, have you seen other striking family members' psychological characteristics in clinical practice? Your doctor has a lot of contact with patients, so you should be more aware." Li Yaxi asked. Her research goal is to dig out more clinical family members' psychological problems. The sooner the problem is discovered, the sooner intervention can be made to avoid a tragedy like hers.

The patient's family members greatly affect the patient's mentality.

I chose to do research in the Department of Pediatrics because my supervisor said that in the Department of Pediatrics, both patients and family members are more likely to express their emotions and expose their psychological problems than in adult wards.

The other party's question reminded Xie Wanying of herself immediately. I can also be regarded as a family member of a patient, and a family member of a reborn patient. Her biggest psychological feature is: guilt.

Is she the only family member of the patient who feels guilty? Certainly not. It can always be seen clinically, and it is often seen in pediatrics that parents of children cry and say sorry to their children.

"Yes!" Li Yaxi was awakened by her words, and said, "I met a child's mother in the ward today and said sorry. I thought she meant sorry for the child, but it turned out not to be."

The guilt of the family members is not only for the sickness of the patient, but also for other family members, and even for "strangers". Who is this "stranger" is the donor.

Don't think of all the family members as the Zhang family. The Zhang family is a minority among the few. Most people have good hearts. I am not only grateful but also deeply ashamed of the donors, thinking that I did not take good care of my family and got others to donate.