Chapter 1755 【1755】Accompanying Elders
"Listen to me." Dr. Peng explained a few more words to the family members, "Cesarean section is definitely not as good as normal delivery for her own future recovery and for the baby. You have to believe what our doctor says, and we will observe her condition again. What is the situation? If she is really in pain, contractions are weak, and she can't give birth, we will give her other treatments in time. At this stage, it is best to continue to enter the vaginal delivery. "
"Doctor, if you don't believe me, ask her yourself if she is in so much pain that she can't stand it anymore?" The pregnant woman's husband gasped, a little anxious for the doctor.
His wife is in pain here, and he feels the same, and the more he looks at it, the more it hurts. As a man, it is impossible to watch his wife suffer such great pain.
Dr. Peng will not specifically ask the mother if the pain is unbearable. Because every pregnant woman will basically answer yes. Referring to the previous five beds, when I first came in, I claimed that the pain was so unbearable that I insisted on having a cesarean section.
Childbirth is like a battle for a woman who is going to be a mother. It takes a lot of willpower to support herself through this difficulty. Because of this, the hospital will arrange appropriate space for family members to come in and accompany the mother. The purpose is to allow family members to give support and encouragement to the mother, so that the mother can face difficulties and face the most difficult challenges in life.
It's just that sometimes things can backfire.
Some family members may be more vulnerable than the mother herself. If she can't support the mother, she will collapse first.
Dr. Peng thought for a while, and made a suggestion to the mother's family members: "I think you are tired after spending a few hours with her. Otherwise, you can change with other family members and let her mother come in to accompany her, how about it?"
"Don't, don't, doctor, don't—" the pregnant woman's husband waved his hands at the doctor, saying that such a measure would not work.
Dr. Peng was surprised. What happened? Could it be that there is a story between the mother and the mother?
The husband of the pregnant woman on the second bed nervously pointed to the single waiting room next door to Dr. Peng.
Dr. Peng walked to the door and turned his ears to the side of the next door to listen for movement.
The No. 1 single-person waiting room is occupied by the No. 5 bed-partner who was transferred from the multi-person waiting room. Since her husband was as young as she was, the family group decided to let her mother, who had experience in childbirth, come in to accompany her.
The result became like this -
"Why do you call it hurt? What's so painful? It hurt even more when I gave birth to you. Bear with it, kid, don't cry, it doesn't hurt at all."
Hearing this, I almost thought that this person was not the birth mother but a stepmother or a difficult mother-in-law.
Listen carefully, the swearing is swearing, and there is definitely some anxiety and worry about her daughter as a mother in her tone.
It is definitely not that the elders do not feel sorry for the younger generation, no one dares to say that. It is impossible for the mother in bed number five not to feel sorry for her own daughter. It's just that these elders are nervous, and they can only use their previous experience as an example to comfort the younger generation that it's not a big deal to have children. The elders said this to appease their own anxiety, so they couldn't realize that what they said was inappropriate.
The mother herself was in so much pain that she couldn't bear it. After hearing her mother's words, she might really be pissed off. The mother in bed No. 5 looked aggrieved and painful. If it wasn't for the performance of bed No. 6 inspiring her, she would not want to give birth.
Undoubtedly, the behavior of the aunt next door made the couple in bed number two tremble.
The husband of the pregnant woman in the second bed told the doctor about his concerns: "I don't want to quarrel with my mother-in-law and my mother. My wife hurts like this, and I love her. It's not that they don't love her, but they are elders, and I can't control it." That's what they say about my wife."