Chapter 1783 【1783】Don't Be Impatient
Du Haiwei turned his face and asked the patient himself: "Tell me yourself, do you want to have another operation?"
It may not make sense to have another surgery. The doctor will explain it to you. Therefore, for a terminally ill patient, the most important thing he/she needs to understand is what kind of choice his heart has to make, whether he intends to fight the disease until death, or accept the natural laws of birth, old age, sickness and death.
Don't think that the doctor is ruthless when he repeatedly asks this question. In fact, he hopes that you can find the path that suits you and give you the fullest freedom instead of living in deception and regretting that you chose the wrong path before you die.
It is possible to live longer by fighting against illness to death than by accepting the natural laws of birth, aging, illness and death. Fighting desperately against the disease may add many side effects of drugs and treatments, and it may also make the last days of life more difficult and unable to die comfortably.
The doctor's words undoubtedly made the patient hesitate.
"It's okay, you think about it slowly, I'll give you some time to fully consider. Come back next week and give me the answer, no need to register. If you want to have an operation, I'll arrange for you to be hospitalized." Du Haiwei said in a slow tone, "What's going on during the period?" If you want to ask questions, you can always come to the hospital and ask us again.”
Why do most old doctors speak in such a slow-paced way? The rookie medical students who are studying opposite have learned a little truth today. Only this sense of slow rhythm can calm the anxious state of mind of patients, so that patients can have a relatively stable state of mind to make the most comfortable choice for themselves.
There is only one thing for a patient to do when they come to see a doctor, and cooperate with the doctor to treat the disease well. It is best not to have self-anxiety. Anxiety is not good for treating diseases. If there is any problem, leave it to the professionals.
Since the doctor promised that he could be registered and hospitalized next time, the patient and his family took the medical records and left with peace of mind and went home to discuss.
To make patients not anxious, doctors should not get anxious by themselves. Only old doctors have this kind of technical confidence. They will not rush to be hospitalized like young doctors when they see that the indicators are not good, but have technical judgments in their hearts, and it is better to know when to make choices for patients than to rush. important.
Young cancer patients are always regrettable and heartbreaking. Fortunately, there are not many young patients. The most favored group of tumors has always been the elderly patients. However, in China, due to the coexistence of various factors such as the temporarily low economic level and the low awareness of national health care, the main age group of cancer patients is relatively low. For example, the second patient, who is in his fifties, cannot be considered an elderly person.
This time it was just the opposite. It was the daughter who accompanied her mother to see a doctor.
The patient was initially diagnosed with uterine fibroids in a foreign hospital. The CT showed a size of 12 centimeters, which was a large tumor. It was discovered too late because the patient was usually overweight. thing. It's a little late to go to the hospital for an examination after the stomach grows bigger and bigger.
For a uterine tumor that grows rapidly in a short period of time, the possibility of malignant transformation is too high.
After thinking about it, the patient and his family went straight to an authoritative expert to see a doctor.
In fact, many hospitals can perform tumor surgery. Looking for an authority is to hope that the expert will have a more complete professional plan to help the patient besides performing the operation. These are goals sought by some of the more informed patients and their families.
The reason why experts are called experts is not simply to perform surgery well.
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