Chapter 809 Dream (3)

She was forced to come out to pay New Year's greetings. Due to her personality, she doesn't like to go out, she doesn't know how to chat with people, and she doesn't know how to please her elders. Her father won't scold her, but she scolds her mother every time. She blames her mother for not educating her well. , scolded her.

She wanted to find someone to talk to her about what was on her mind. She didn't want to follow the arrangements of her family.

"What about you? What do you think? Remember, you are a person, and everyone has independent thoughts. You won't have no ideas, right?" Ling Sheng tried to guide her.

From her words, she knew that her father was the kind of man who was extremely controlling and authoritarian. Everyone had to do what he wanted, and no one was allowed to disobey him.

Song Yiyan said that since she was a child, her family had arranged everything she studied, which school she went to, what she wore, what she used, how she spoke and acted, and even who she made friends with. She only had to follow the instructions step by step. Just leave everything they have arranged.

"Ling Sheng, I don't want to be like this. I want to do something I like. I didn't like anything very much before. I like whatever my mother tells me I like.

But now, I want to act. Only when I act can I feel happy. "Song Yiyan finally stopped crying, and her eyes were shining brightly when she talked about acting.

Ling Sheng finally figured it out. She had been controlled for so long that she no longer had the consciousness to resist. In other words, she was afraid of her father's power and did not dare to resist. Due to her personality, she had no idea other than crying. Being raised as a marionette, I dare not still have a sense of independence of my own, and my independent personality has not been completely wiped out.

Suddenly, I thought of the arrogant and rough girl when they first met, roaring at her loudly and eager to wake her up.

Although she was a bit suspected of destroying other people's family relationships, she still wanted to say: "Song Yiyan, you are a human being. You are not your parents' private property. There is no need for you to listen to them in everything and follow the life they planned for you." Go and walk.”

Song Yiyan frowned, not understanding a bit, and looked at her doubtfully.

Ling Sheng sighed, and continued: "You have to learn to say no to people, and you can't listen to them for everything. If you like something, pursue it boldly, and don't look forward or backward, otherwise you will always be led by others. The nose is like a robot that follows the instructions given to you by others.”

Song Yiyan pointed to her nose: "Am I a robot? What should I do?"

Ling Sheng was at his wits end. Why are you so stupid? My little ancestor, it’s really hard to talk to her: "Do you know there is a word called rebellion? You just don’t listen to him. If your father tells you to go east, you go west. ."

Song Yiyan seemed to understand something: "For example, if my dad asked me to come out with him to pay New Year's greetings today, I wouldn't come out and go against him, right?"

Ling Sheng felt that she seemed to understand a little bit, but it was not like this: "If it is something you think is right, you must insist on saying no to him. Your father asked you to come out to celebrate the New Year for the elders. It is a basic social etiquette. Unless you are separated from human beings, It’s inevitable in society, so I went out with my dad to pay New Year greetings.”

When Song Yiyan heard her talking about dad, she reacted belatedly and said with surprise: "Ling Sheng, your dad is Huo Ci, why haven't I heard of it?"