Chapter 228 Disappointed Daughter (2)

[Maybe her daughter is rebellious? If a child is in a rebellious period nowadays, she/he will say anything that hurts the parents. ]

[I agree with the above. I have a child like this. He will talk back to me no matter what I say. He won’t tell me anything. It’s so frustrating. ]

[If all of you who have daughters are like this, then I will feel balanced. My son is so rebellious that I want to kick him out of the house. ]

[The above, when you really can’t stand it, just silently recite the three words "dear child". That’s how I am. 】

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Mother of two children: "No, I don't favor boys over girls. I have another son, but I treat my daughter very well. Before she went to college, she was very sensible and helped in the family store since she was a child."

"On the other hand, my son has never been considerate of his parents since he was a child. Whenever he has time, he asks for money to go out and play with his friends."

"During the summer vacation of my daughter's senior year in high school, she even went out to work. In three months, she earned her own college tuition."

"She even worked part-time in college. We only need to give her 500 yuan for living expenses every month. Even so, every time she goes home on vacation, she will buy gifts for the whole family, and they are all good brands."

"My son has a living expense of 5,000 yuan a month. Not enough, but often gets into trouble. I don't know how much compensation I have paid for the glass in the school, and I have paid tens of thousands for the medical expenses of the people he injured. "

"In order not to worry us, my daughter chose a local university to study."

"Originally, I felt very happy to have such a caring daughter. I felt that I could rely on her when I was old."

"But when my daughter was in her senior year this year, she told me that she had a boyfriend and was living with him outside. That person is from Qingcheng. Qingcheng is too far away from Nancheng. It's across the province. If she marries far away, I will have few opportunities to see her in my life."

[This person's words are not biased towards boys, but his actual actions are all biased towards boys.]

[That's right. He only gives his daughter 500 yuan a month for living expenses and his son 5,000 yuan. The difference is ten times. This is too biased.]

[That's right. During the same holiday, the son can go out and play with his friends, while the daughter must help in the store. After a long time, she will definitely be disappointed with her parents. 】

【They said that they chose a local university to study in order not to worry her. Didn't they tell their daughter that if she studied locally, they would be more relaxed, save living expenses, and not have to spend too much money on travel every time? 】

【That's right, such a good daughter, they spent more than 20 years to make her more and more distant from them. 】

The mother of two children: "That was all my daughter's own request. Her father and I never forced her. If she didn't want to, we wouldn't say anything."

【Really not say anything? Maybe you accidentally said that she didn't help and didn't know how to reduce the burden on the family, so she didn't dare to say it from then on, but she would be scolded if she said it? 】

The mother of two children was stunned and fell silent.

It seems that she said such words.

Qiao Ningxun counted with her fingers and said seriously: "If you want your daughter to be as caring as before, then you have to change yourselves."

The mother of two children came back to her senses and asked: "How can we change?"

Qiao Ningxun: "What the netizens said just now is right. In every word you said, you think you don't favor boys over girls, but in life, you favor boys over girls everywhere."

The mother of two children quickly denied: "I don't."

Qiao Ningxun: "You do, I have calculated it, I will give you a few things."

"She wanted to make an appointment with her classmates to travel during the summer vacation after the college entrance examination. They found a tour group with a good discount. They can go to more than a dozen cities for a few thousand yuan."

"She asked you and your wife for money. You didn't refuse at first, but once when you were talking, you didn't notice that she was also next to you. She heard you say that other people's daughters started to make money for their families after the college entrance examination, but your daughter wanted Spending thousands on traveling, what a spendthrift. "

"From that day on, she never thought about traveling and found a job on her own."

"The second thing is, when she was a sophomore, she was not feeling well for a while and did not earn enough for the next month's living expenses. With only the 500 yuan you gave her, she could not even afford the medicine. When she asked you for money, do you remember what you said? You said that your daughter was so young and how could she get sick? She must have learned to spend lavishly. You asked your daughter to spend frugally, and you did not have any money for the time being. "

"But on the same day, your freshman son called you and said that he did not have enough living expenses. Without saying anything, you gave him 3,000 yuan and told him not to save and buy whatever he liked. "

"What you don't know is that your son asked for the money for your daughter. As soon as the 3,000 yuan arrived, he transferred it to his sister, and your daughter immediately used the money to buy medicine. "

"This brother is not bad. "

"Generally speaking, brothers will take good care of their sisters, of course, there are vampire brothers. "

"This brother is really good. 】

【The mother of two children said that she did not favor boys over girls, but now the anchor has revealed everything to her. 】

The mother of two children hurriedly explained: "At that time, I just casually told my husband that I really didn't know she heard it. And she asked for living expenses, I really thought she had learned to spend money lavishly, after all, she had never asked us for money before, I really didn't know she was sick. Because the children of my age around me are very healthy, I thought she was also healthy."

[You think your daughter came out of a stone, and you said you don't know how to get sick. ]

[That's right, as long as you are a human, you will get sick, you just don't want to spend money on your daughter. ]

[That's right, your daughter must have struggled for a long time at that time before she mustered up the courage to ask you for money, but she didn't expect to be rejected by her closest person. If I were your daughter, I would definitely die if I asked my brother for money at that time and he didn't give it to me. ]

The mother of two children burst into tears.

She really didn't know that the things she did hurt her daughter so much.

Qiao Ningxun didn't intend to let her go, and continued: "The reason why your daughter chose a local school is that she really wanted to save money for the family. Once, she couldn't find a part-time job for a long time, but her major required a computer with good performance, so she asked you for money to buy a computer. What did you say to her? You said that it would take you a long time to earn such an expensive computer, so you asked her to borrow a classmate's."

"After that, she really didn't buy a computer. Every time she did homework, she asked her classmates to borrow it."

"But her classmates also had to do homework. If she borrowed it, it would delay her classmates' homework time, and she suffered a lot of cold stares from them."