Chapter 2088 Mingzhu's Wedding (1)
After everyone left, Caiwei hurriedly released the parrot to ask for news about Emperor Jin Ming. The parrot flew into the air, looked north for a while, and said, "Master, the Taoist priest has been promoted to immortality. "
Emperor Jin Ming is dead!
Caiwei's heart sank and she truthfully told Nangong Yi the news.
She was not worried that Nangong Yi would be sad, because Nangong Yi did not have deep feelings for Emperor Jin Ming. When Nangong Yi was young, Emperor Jin Ming doted on Concubine Jin and Nangong Shi, and was indifferent and indifferent to Nangong Yi's mother and son. Regardless, that past event has created an insurmountable gap between their father and son. Even though Emperor Jin and Ming later tried to repair the relationship between their father and son, even if the deep wound healed, the scar would never go away.
Sure enough, Nangong Yi didn't have much emotion after hearing the news. He just said lightly: "We will go to Lingbei to take care of things later. He didn't want to use his royal status, so he was buried on the spot as a Taoist priest." Bar!"
Caiwei hesitated for a moment and said, "If we go all at once, what will happen to Zhu'er and Chao'er's wedding in three days? We can't have Zhu'er's wedding without our parents being present!"
Nangong Yi said: "Why get married? Her biological grandfather passed away, is it possible that she still wants to get married happily? How can there be such a rebellious and unethical thing in the world? If it spreads, wouldn't we be reviled by everyone in the world? , the pearl will also be criticized by thousands of people!"
The Jin Dynasty ruled the world with filial piety, and what Nangong Yi said was indeed reasonable.
In the Jin Dynasty, many filial sons and grandsons will take the initiative to observe filial piety for three years after the death of their elders. During these three years, let alone getting married, they are not allowed to wear bright clothes. There are even some foolish and filial sons, I wonder if it is to gain a filial reputation. , I didn't eat a bite of meat for three years, and I couldn't do anything between men and women, so as to express my sorrow for my elders.
In theory, Pearl should be like this, but even though this is the truth, Caiwei doesn't want to delay her daughter for three years. It's not that she doesn't like her daughter staying at home, it's just that her daughter has already reached the age of getting married. If she just stays at home, it will cause trouble. It would be bad if the daughter and son-in-law are resentful.
It is said that if a daughter is not kept, she will be wronged if she stays here and there. Although Mingzhu will not really blame them, her son-in-law is an outsider. If he is separated from them and resents them, she will keep her daughter for three more years. Years are wasted!
"Yi, what you said makes sense. However, the deceased is the greatest. My father has long since escaped into Buddhism. He is no longer a member of our Five Elements. If we treat him with worldly etiquette, will it go against his will?" Is it also against filial piety?"
Caiwei poured a bowl of tea, handed it over considerately, and sat beside him gently.
Nangong Yi took the tea bowl and said: "I know you are talking to that boy Wan Yanchao and want him to marry our Pearl home smoothly, but have you ever thought about it? Putting aside filial piety, don't you think Things that are too easy to obtain are often not cherished. What if our Pearl is married off easily? What if he doesn’t take our daughter seriously? I know that Pearl is happy with him and does the same. It's not about trying to beat the mandarin duck, I just want to test the boy's patience and let him know that our daughter is not easy to marry. "
Caiwei smiled and said: "Don't you cherish what is easy to get? Why don't I think so? With Chao'er's temperament, if Zhu'er is an arrogant and pretentious woman, even if he spends all his efforts to marry her, it won't take long for him to marry her. He abandoned her like a pair of worn shoes; however, no matter whether he married a woman as gentle, kind, smart and lively as our Pearl, he would definitely cherish it, just like the two of us, you thought that I I'm not worthy of you, and you wanted me to be your concubine, but then you treated me with great respect and have been in love with me for half your life. So, your statement is not true at all. The relationship between husband and wife mainly relies on What matters is how two people stay together, not the little tricks."