Chapter 1993 Disadvantages

Qin Xue's thoughts are all very well-founded, but there is also a disadvantage in doing so, that is, men who look at women like this for a long time will have a kind of visual fatigue.

And gradually there will be a crisis in the relationship, so Qin Xue doesn't want to be a housewife who depends on men for her life. She wants to be a woman who is not bad in life and career, because confident women are the most beautiful and also The most attractive.

Usually at this time, men are not afraid of women turning into yellow-faced women, but are more afraid of suitors competing with him.

Therefore, the best way for a woman to treat herself is not to give up her career because of marriage, let alone compromise her ideals and give up her goals because of children, otherwise what is waiting for you will definitely be the result you don't want.

Why do you say that? Because you have a job, so you are financially independent. You can spend as much as you want. No one can control you, and there is no way to control you.

However, when you give up your job and devote yourself to your work, you are already showing weakness, because at this time, your focus is on your family and children, and you no longer have a job, so Without income and financial resources, I have to ask my husband for money.

So in the husband's heart, he can understand it at first, but slowly, he will feel that he is supporting you and the family. Once there is a conflict, he will think in his heart, I am supporting you. I am raising you, you are a freeloader, a person with no job and no income, what qualifications do you have to speak, what reason do you have to complain.

At this time, what a man thinks about is his contribution, but you have no job, no income, and nothing to do. You have to be supported by him at home every day, but he forgets that if you are not at home to take care of the family, No matter how big or small, how could he work peacefully outside.

If you don't take care of your children at home and be filial to your parents-in-law, how can he work hard outside without any worries? But he can't see all the hard work you have done. The reason is that you have no job and no financial income, so your hard work is nothing. Thanks for your hard work. Because you are reaching out to ask him for money, because he is spending money to support you.

So Qin Xue doesn't want to be such a woman. No matter what the situation is, she will take care of her work well. She will not say that she lives for anyone, but for herself and herself. Live for those who love her.

It was also because she was lucky. She met a man who loved her, had lovely children, and family members who loved her behind her back, so she could do what she wanted to do so easily.

Chu Molin didn't know such thoughts. He just thought Qin Xue liked it, so he let her go. But he didn't know that sometimes what he thought and what he did were completely different things.

Because Qin Xue has seen a lot, he does things differently from ordinary people, which is what attracts Chu Molin.

As for Qin Xue, she did very well in many things. She never asked Chu Molin to worry about it, so he didn't know what Qin Xue wanted to do.

It is true that his wife is too capable and cannot be used for anything. He didn't believe it at first, but after seeing it more and more, he had to sigh that he was really lucky to have married an almost all-powerful wife. .

There is probably no one in this world who is as lucky as him, otherwise the world would be full of smart people.