Chapter 1935 The Child’s Inner World

"Haha, we adults don't understand the world of children." Fang Xiu smiled.

"You are wrong. As long as we look at things as children, then we may be very close to their ideas. Do you believe it?" Qin Xue knows that their thinking is different from that of children. That’s why we have to think of ourselves as a child who is not familiar with the world. Then we should not think of ourselves as parents.

When we play with children as adults, we will discover a lot of fun things, which we cannot experience as adults.

"That's right. It's because we haven't personally experienced the inner journey of our children that we think they don't understand anything. In fact, that's not the case." After Fang Xiu heard Qin Xue's words, she also felt that there was something wrong with her thinking.

Many times when she was with her son, she would have a sense of superiority as a parent. She just felt that the things and thoughts that a young son sometimes did were beyond the understanding of a mother like her, so she often listened to Qin As for Xue, let him think about it by himself, and only correct him when he made a mistake. At other times, he was allowed to develop freely. After starting this practice, she found that her son was wrong in many aspects. Well done.

For example, if she is giving a sweet potato to her son, many mothers will think that the child is too young to peel and eat it, so they will peel it without letting the child try it.

But what is the actual situation? The actual situation is of course different from what most mothers imagine.

Not only can children peel, but they can also do it in a decent way. Although the movements are clumsy, they can still do it. Therefore, parents should not think about doing everything for their children. Children have their own world. They are not what we think they are, so adults should not do everything for their children.

We need to ask our children more about what they need and understand more about their inner world. Only in this way can we get along with our children.

Only by making friends with children can we know what their hearts are like and what wonderful thoughts they contain. To be honest, it is really a colorful world.

"So we big friends can often put aside our identities and mingle with them. In this way, we can understand what they are thinking, right?" Qin Xue thinks this way because she helped her in her previous life. A friend's child participated in a parent-child activity during Children's Day.

It was a coincidence that she participated in such an event. She happened to have a rest that day. There were no programs planned. She was ready to sleep at home for the whole day. Unexpectedly, she received a call from a friend.

A friend called her and told her that she was preparing to go to the kindergarten to participate in her child's parent-child activities. As a result, she received a call from the company, asking her to come to the company immediately. If she didn't go, her job would be in danger. There was no way she could think of it. I contacted all my friends, but they didn’t have time, so I had to call her as a single person.

Qin Xue had nothing to do originally. Thinking about her relationship with this friend, she still got along well, so she gave up her plan to sleep for a day and rushed over to the kindergarten with her children.

The situation that day was actually quite interesting. When she rushed over, she happened to see her friend talking to her child about it.

"Mom, you always break your promises. Are you really not afraid of breaking your promises and gaining weight?" The child looked at his mother unhappily.