Chapter 1387 Difficulty Getting Along with Mother-in-Law and Daughter-in-Law

When Qin Xue followed her grandma in the countryside, what she heard most was that she looked after her mother-in-law for the first ten years and her daughter-in-law for the next ten years.

What it means is that when the daughter-in-law first comes to her home, she is unfamiliar and uneasy about the home. At this time, she needs the love, tolerance and understanding of her husband and mother-in-law the most.

After all, a woman who was originally the princess of her family, gets married all of a sudden, and comes to a strange family. All kinds of relationships and people in the family have to be adjusted, and there will be great differences and opinions in getting along. If at this time, the husband's family If a person can treat her well, then he will be grateful in his heart, and he will also treat his husband's family well.

On the contrary, if the daughter-in-law comes and her husband's family has all kinds of critical opinions, then the daughter-in-law will not have any sense of stability. Not only will she not feel happy, she will also feel anxious and uneasy, let alone a sense of belonging. Then How could she live well in this home?

As far as Qin Xue knows, this kind of situation is really not uncommon in China, and many couples in later generations ended up getting divorced. It has a lot to do with the involvement of mother-in-law.

The mother-in-law will have a jealous mentality, thinking that her daughter-in-law is here to steal her son from her. She feels that the son she raised with great difficulty and spent a lot of money and effort has been snatched away by another woman. , so my heart is unbalanced.

As a mother-in-law, she will look down on her son being nice to his daughter-in-law. She thinks that the child she raised has never been so kind to her. Why should she let him be nice to other women? So she will use all kinds of tricks to destroy her son and daughter-in-law. The son-in-law was dissatisfied with his daughter-in-law's feelings and talked about all kinds of wrongdoings about his daughter-in-law.

In many families, sons will also listen to their mother's words and feel that her mother is the person who loves him the most. What she says is right and she will not harm him. However, he has never thought that his wife will leave the familiar family and come here. In this strange place, all she could rely on was the man she married.

Once a man ignores these, cracks will appear in the relationship between husband and wife, and over time, the relationship will break down and lead to divorce. And the biggest ‘hero’ here is the mother-in-law.

Therefore, if you want your son and daughter-in-law to live well, you must get along well with your daughter-in-law. After all, you will still have to rely on your daughter-in-law to take care of you at your bedside when you get old.

At this point, Chen Lei did a good job. This was because Anhao would not say anything angry or anything like that. Instead, she felt uneasy, feeling that she should not have done it. She went to play by herself and let her mother-in-law take care of the child. This is the result of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law being considerate of each other. Not only will they not have conflicts, but they will live better and consider each other more. As a son and husband, Li Zhao will also live more comfortably, otherwise it would be very difficult to be caught in the middle. Difficult.

"Zhaozi, luckily mom didn't scold me, otherwise I wouldn't dare go out next time." Anhao looked at her daughter. When she first came back, she was scared to death.

"What are you thinking about? Mom knows that you worked hard to give birth to the baby, so she feels sorry for you." Li Zhao also knew that An Hao's mood was a bit unstable, so when he left, he told her to let her play and relax. No one is allowed to say anything to her after she comes back, lest she think too much about it.

And they came back late, and the family members really didn't say anything bad, which made him feel very relaxed. The family members all cared about each other, and they were less tired and could get along more happily.

Li Zhao looked at his wife and children. He felt that he was really satisfied to have such a family in this life. What could be more important than a happy family?