Chapter 3899 [3899] Adaptation

Old people like to laugh at children and young people most. They are unmarried and do not understand taste. When couples quarrel, they quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed. So her mother complained about her father every day, but actually she never thought about parting ways with her father. In the same way, her father complained about her mother every day and never thought of separating from his wife.

This kind of quarrel between couples does not hurt themselves. After all, it is the path they have chosen that they cannot blame others for. Who is it hurting? is a child.

The psychological shadow caused by parents to their children is definitely lifelong.

So for children, does the love and happiness of parents definitely have a good influence?

Medical science has long proven that the influence of one person on another can never be explained clearly, and even brain science has yet to understand it.

For example, her grandfather was a well-known lover in the neighborhood. He took care of his sick wife for many years and never left her until her death. After his wife passed away, he never thought about marrying again when he was young. Otherwise, with her grandfather's handsome appearance, many women would be willing to take the initiative to hook up with her.

As a result, my grandfather’s two daughters, their mother and their aunt, all had unhappy marriages.

The parents at home are too loving, and the illusion created by the children may be: all marriages in this society are happy? ? ?

Due to the influence of her father's view on love, her mother believes that after the establishment of a small family, everything should be based on the small family.

What her father had accepted from an early age was the family concept that the old Xie family had cultivated for his son, and the individual small family had to make all concessions for the big Xie family.

Therefore, such a strange thing happened. It was obvious that his small family could not open the rice pot. Xie Changrong was told by the Xie family that he used the scholarship his daughter got for studying to support his younger brother to buy a house.

It's the same if you put this matter in a wealthy family. Believe it or not, if one party spends most of their assets to other people for free, no matter how rich the couple is, they will collapse. For example, the brother-in-law and the devil's wife that rich gay men hate the most. It can only be said that men and women are each other in this kind of thing.

Why is it said that marriage is the tomb of love, just because the logic of the other party's mind was not fully understood before marriage.

To ensure a good marriage, the only way is to wait until the day when medical science advances enough to detect the ceiling logic line of the other person's brain and whether it is the bottom line of doing things that one can tolerate, otherwise the problem of whether a man and a woman are fully compatible will never be solved.

What to do if it doesn't fully fit, you can only make do with it. Most of the couples laugh at themselves that their marriage is just getting by.

Sun Rongfang has no confidence in her own brain, so she can only hope that her daughter is not like herself, so it is better to study medicine. Knowing more about the human body is conducive to making good life choices.

Speaking of the specific process of the incident that year, after sending his son away, Mr. Du described:

When Sun Rongfang was young, she took care of Grandpa Du and was appreciated by Grandpa Du, and then met Mr. Du's eldest brother. Mr. Du's elder brother wanted to marry her mother as his wife, but her mother refused because her father was the marriage partner.

Not only that, because this matter had to be separated from Brother Du, her mother knew that someone had secretly blacklisted her test scores and did not fight against it.

The so-called examination refers to the personal medical examination selection that Grandpa Du wants to recruit a medical staff who will take care of him for a long time.

"Your mother's grades were not replaced by anyone, but were deliberately lowered. This was done by my elder brother."

It can be heard that Brother Du was very angry at that time. You would rather reject me and choose that kid who is much worse than me. I just do as you like.

After suppressing her mother, it became a must to support Dr. Shao.