Chapter 3181 Different Attitudes
Luo Ziling didn't know how to explain, and he didn't know how to comfort Yang Qingyin, so he just used some violence.
The effect of violent means is quite good, and Yang Qingyin finally surrendered to him.
Of course, Yang Qingyin, who had calmed down, still needed a few tricks of Yang's unique family of Jiuyin Baigu pinching, which made Luo Ziling beg for mercy repeatedly.
Yang Qingyin told Luo Ziling that even if she got engaged, she would have to go abroad for a while, so that she could calm down and think about it.
She asked Luo Ziling to think about it too, to think about everything clearly.
If you feel that the two parties are not suitable to be together, or that you can't be single-minded to her, then the best result is to separate.
She doesn't want to share a man, share a man's feelings with others.
"Okay, then calm down and think about it." Luo Ziling didn't want to discuss these matters with Yang Qingyin too much, so he agreed according to her wishes.
Luo Ziling didn't sleep with Yang Qingyin, but went home around ten o'clock.
The engagement ceremony is going to be held tomorrow, he has to go back and make some preparations, and discuss some things with Ling Ruonan.
Yang Qingyin didn't stop him either, and let him go back.
The engagement ceremony and the whole process were handled by Chen Qiaoyu.
She came over to discuss some details with Ling Ruonan this evening.
The Yang family is a super wealthy family. Although the Luo family is not as glorious as the Yang family now, Luo Ziling is the grandson of the Ling family. He is also a super internet celebrity with hundreds of millions of fans. He is a potential star who can talk to many bigwigs, so he is engaged The ceremony must match the identities of the two families.
For a wealthy family, face is very important.
If such a big event is not arranged well and loses face, it will be a joke.
When Luo Ziling returned home, Chen Qiaoyu, who had come to discuss matters with Ling Ruonan, hadn't left yet.
She was actually waiting for Luo Ziling.
Seeing Luo Ziling come back, Chen Qiaoyu breathed a sigh of relief.
After giving Luo Ziling some instructions, she went back to sleep.
In fact, there are not many activities scheduled for tomorrow.
In the morning, Luo Ziling came to propose with a gift and his birthday. If the Yang family accepted the gift and his birthday, it meant that the Yang family wanted Luo Ziling and Yang Qingyin to be together, and their marriage would be completed.
After the Yang family left Luo Ziling to drink tea and eat snacks at home, there was nothing else to do.
The highlight is at night.
There are many guests at the engagement banquet in the evening. In addition to exchanging engagement rings and other engagement gifts in front of the guests, the two have to face all the guests as a couple, toast them and accept everyone's blessings.
Engagement and wedding ceremonies are different in each place, because Luo Ziling is from the south, and the wedding ceremony must follow the southern customs. However, Yang Qingyin was from the north, so the engagement ceremony had to be carried out according to the customs approved by the Yang family.
Life must have a sense of ritual, which is a popular saying among modern people.
But modern people's sense of ritual is not as important as the ancients.
Both engagement and marriage ceremonies are handed down from ancient times.
In ancient times, no matter whether you were noble or humble, if you did a big event, if you didn't hold a ceremony, you probably wouldn't get everyone's approval.
In the eyes of many people, when you get married and register with the Civil Affairs Bureau, it is not considered a real marriage. Only after a banquet can you get everyone's approval and feel that you are married.
In ancient China, there were six ceremonies for marriage, namely: Nacai, asking for names, Naji, Nazheng, asking for a date, and personally welcoming.
Nacai invites a matchmaker to come to propose a marriage, and asks for a name. Najib basically uses the birthdays of both parties to match the horoscope. Nazheng means that the man sends a dowry gift to the woman's home. The engagement that modern people talk about is actually almost the acceptance of the six rituals.
The invitation period is to set the date of marriage. The best understanding is to welcome the bride through the door.
Luo Ziling and Yang Qingyin haven't registered their marriage yet, they're just engaged, so the date of appointment and the in-person reception can't be held yet.
In fact, Luo Ziling's engagement ceremony almost followed the Six Rites, but Chen Qiaoyu and Ling Ruonan completed the previous procedures on their behalf. A matchmaker is of course needed,
The giant Buddha of Li Haiyang was moved out.
He was familiar with Luo Ziling and Yang Qingyin, and his status was respected. Both Ling Ruonan and Chen Qiaoyu accepted him as their matchmaker.
When Ling Ruonan went to invite, Li Haiyang also happily agreed, and together with Ling Ruonan, helped Luo Ziling complete the first few procedures.
Li Haiyang personally accompanied Luo Ziling, came to deliver the dowry and proposed marriage.
In the early morning of the twelfth day of the first lunar month, Luo Ziling, accompanied by Li Haiyang and several acquaintances, Cao Jianhui, Wu Longjiang, Li Fuming and Ling Haijun, made a grandiose attack on the Yang family.
After coming to Yanjing for more than a year, many people gathered around Luo Ziling.
However, most of the backbones who work for him are women, not many men.
The hardcore male supporters are the classmates Ling Haijun and Luo Ziling.
This is not a good sign. Luo Ziling feels that the lack of male supporters is a shortcoming in his life.
In the next period of time, he will cultivate more male backbones.
Although women can hold up half the sky, but in many cases, it still depends on the strength of men to conquer the world.
Of course, the place where Luo Ziling gave the dowry was not the old house of the Yang family, it was the place where Yang Yuanshan lived.
The place where Yang Yunlin and Chen Qiaoyu lived was Yang Qingyin's family.
Yang Qingyin also went home last night. After Luo Ziling left, she didn't sleep in her own place, so she asked Ye Xiaoli to take her home.
After returning home, he didn't go to bed right away, and discussed with Chen Qiaoyu who came back very late for more than an hour.
This morning, she got up early again.
I didn't sleep well last night, so I looked a bit lacklustre, so I can only use makeup to make up for my lack of energy.
Luo Ziling and Li Haiyang arrived at Yang's house at ten o'clock in the morning.
Both Yang Yuanshan and Yang Yunlin were there.
Yang Yuanshan still attached great importance to his granddaughter's engagement, so he pushed other activities and directed them himself.
Li Haiyang didn't have any psychological disadvantages when facing Yang Yunlin, but when facing Yang Yuanshan, he still didn't dare to show his usual aura. However, Yang Yuanshan did not embarrass Li Haiyang, a makeshift matchmaker, nor did he embarrass Luo Ziling. He cheerfully received Luo Ziling's family-seeking group, and praised Luo Ziling face to face, asking Luo Ziling to work harder and strive for greater achievements.
But Yang Yunlin was not so easy to discuss.
Yang Yunlin, who has always been dissatisfied with Luo Ziling and even wanted to get rid of him several times, certainly did not want him to get engaged to Yang Qingyin.
But Yang Yuanshan agreed, and realistic factors also made him feel that the engagement of the two would be more beneficial to the Yang family, so he agreed against his will.
Agreeing to their marriage does not mean that he will change his attitude towards Luo Ziling.
He is Yang Qingyin's father and Luo Ziling's future father-in-law. Today, Luo Ziling came to ask for a marriage, and he couldn't agree so readily.
Therefore, Luo Ziling was embarrassed by Yang Yunlin.