Chapter 1483
Si Ya was just about to carry the bag back when she saw Er Ya walking in from the outside.
"Second sister, why are you here?"
Erya smiled and said, "Didn't you just graduate? Mom was worried that you had too many things to carry, so she asked me and your brother-in-law to pick them up."
Siya was so happy that the second brother-in-law came by car, so there was no need to squeeze the bus with the suitcase. Although there is only one box, the books inside are very heavy.
Er Ya looked at Ai Ziyu and Gong Xiaocui: "When are you leaving, do you want to see you off?"
The two shook hands together: "No, no, we won't leave until tomorrow."
After Siya left, Ai Ziyu said with emotion: "I really envy Tian Lu, the sisters are so nice. After my sister gets married, she always wants to take care of her from her mother's house, and every time I go back, she sends the children to me to tutor. The child's grades did not improve, and he felt that I was not paying attention."
She was about to vomit blood, and if she didn't catch her children to study, she would go back to tutoring during the Chinese New Year, and her grades would turn upside down for a few days, what was she dreaming of! I can't say it yet, and when I say it, I get angry and feel that I look down on her. It made her wish she could take a detour when she saw her sister now.
Gong Xiaocui said with a smile: "Everyone is envious. With such a powerful elder sister, she can benefit infinitely from daily guidance."
In the past four years, Tian Lu taught her a lot and benefited her a lot. According to what Tian Lu said, it was taught by her elder sister on weekdays. She met Li Guihua, a very ordinary woman, and Tian Lu's excellence is entirely due to her elder sister. It's a pity that Sister Tian is too busy, so I have been there three times and haven't been able to see her. It's a pity.
"Forget it, I can't think about it, it makes me feel bad when I think about it."
Gong Xiaocui took the opportunity to say: "So don't get married so soon. You feel bad about your mother's family now, and you have to add your in-law's family after you get married. That's really annoying."
Hearing this, Ai Ziyu's face changed slightly. After thinking for a while, she sighed and said, "You are quite right. It's okay if my mother's family is upset, but if my husband's family is also like this, do we still have to live? If we don't get married this year Let's talk about it in two years!"
Gong Xiaocui was also relieved to see that she had changed her mind. She worked part-time on weekends and winter and summer vacations to make money, and she had a good relationship with Ai Ziyu and Tian Lu at school. Tian Lu has such a powerful eldest sister so she doesn't have to worry about it, but Ai Ziyu is quite worrying.
"Ziyu, don't tell anyone about the money in your hand, including your parents and Song Lidong. If someone borrows it, just say you've spent it all."
It's also Ai Ziyu who spends money lavishly, but Gong Xiaocui talked about the capital, and saved nearly 2,000 yuan in four years.
Seeing that Ai Ziyu frowned, Gong Xiaocui said: "I know your parents love you, and they also have wages and won't worry about your money. But you have to know, what they value most is their son and grandson. If What does your brother want to do without enough money, will he talk to you if he knows you have money? Can you go to collect debts if you can’t pay back if you don’t finish the important thing? "
Ai Ziyu's parents both eat public food from work units, and they love Ai Ziyu very much. It's just that when brothers and sisters get married, there will be various conflicts when it comes to money.
"Hiding it to your parents? Isn't it necessary?"
Gong Xiaocui smiled, but the smile was a bit bitter: "Look at me, I spent the first six months of college and sent the money back. Later, when I made money as a tutor, I sent all the money back. The family debt is paid off. It was cleared, the house was built, relatives and people in the village praised it, but my parents were not satisfied."
Ai Ziyu was shocked: "You have done so much for the family, and your parents are still not satisfied?"
Gong Xiaocui said: "Tian Lu asked me to keep some money for backup after knowing that my house was built. So in the second half of last year, I sent back less money. This money is enough for family expenses, but not enough to help relatives. My father Mom thinks it's too selfish for me to do this."
Her parents thought that their family was well-off and they should pay back the favors of relatives. At that time, they promised to lend money to relatives, but the money she sent home was less.
Ai Ziyu felt a little distressed: "Don't your parents know that it hurts to say such words?"
Gong Xiaocui said: "I was very sad at the time, but after thinking about it later, I also handled this matter wrongly. I shouldn't have told them that I left half of the money, but should have said that I had no time to be a tutor when I was about to graduate. The money is less, so there will be no later things.”
"Ziyu, Sister Tian Lu paid her second and third sisters to do business, so that their three young ones could go to college. No one dared not listen to her words, so the sisters got along well. But our two families are different. Brothers and sisters Many parents also give priority to sons and grandchildren, so we have to plan more for ourselves."
Whether it's her parents or Ai Ziyu's parents, they all love their daughter. But when the brothers and sisters grow up and get married, they all have their own thoughts, and the parents can no longer control them. This is the time, whoever is selfless for his family will suffer the most, and may suffer the greatest harm in the end.
Ai Ziyu listened to Gong Xiaocui's words. After returning to the province to report at the school, Song Lidong urged to go back to fix the date, but she refused. The reasons are all ready-made. I have no money to get married, so I have to save some money first. For this matter, the two quarreled fiercely, and then fell into a cold war.
Siya wanted to go to Yangcheng after graduation, but Li Guihua disagreed: "You are twenty-four this year, and I gave birth to your second sister at this age."
Hearing this, Si Ya said helplessly: "Mom, it's not that I don't look for it, it's that no one is chasing me at school!"
The reality is exactly the opposite of what she said. There are many people who pursue Si Ya in school, and the confession of love letters makes her numb. It's just that Siya is focused on making money, and she thinks that these suitors are not after her, but for her eldest sister and her husband, so she rejected them all. Of course, you can't tell the truth to Li Guihua, so you don't have to talk about it in another way.
Li Guihua disliked Siya very much, thinking she was too useless, and said, "Your Aunt Li's natal nephew, graduated from the University of Science and Technology, and now works in the Construction Bureau. I told her that you will meet on Saturday."
Siya knew that Aunt Li was Li Guihua's partner, and she got closer recently: "What else?"
"Aunt Li's eldest brother and sister-in-law have a job, and this nephew is the only one who has a few children who is not married. Your Aunt Li said that her sister-in-law has a good temper and treats her two daughters-in-law like her own daughters."
Si Ya just listen to these words, if you want to take it seriously, you will be a fool. Before entering the door, he said that he regarded you as his own daughter. After entering the door, he felt that he had done too little work for 24 hours: "These are all false. How much does her nephew pay for a month? Does she have a house?"
Li Guihua said: "The salary is more than 400 a month. I just worked for two years and didn't get a house so quickly. But it doesn't matter. You have a house anyway. If you get married, you will live in your house first."
Because Tian Shao and Sanya's houses were bought with their own money, Li Guihua felt that it would be no problem for her son-in-law to live in the house bought by her daughter.
Siya is not willing to post back. A girl who sticks to the man will think that she cannot get married and will be looked down upon. But she knew that if she didn't go to Li Guihua, there would be a lot of things waiting for her, so she readily agreed: "Mother is right, I will take care of it when the time comes."
"That's right."